Urgent non-teen Q (b/c he could die)?

She knows this guy who is practicaly her father (and her dad died when she was a kid) who happens to be not only gay, but also has AIDS. He is in the hospital now and things aren't looking good, honestly. He may not leave. I feel obligated to tell him that my intentions with her are honest. The situation is awkward at best, just b/c we only sort of know each other and I don't want to be around unless he wants me to, but I also want him to know what I want her with me, that I mean it. How do I handle this? Do I go to the hospital unannounced just to tell him? Do I go through her? This guy may seriously die tomorrow but I want him to know that I'm serious about her, but she doesn't think it's a good idea to see him right now. How do I get my message to him if indeed time is a factor?

Urgent non-teen Q (b/c he could die)?
I think if you were sincere and he really cares and loves this girl like a father would, then knowing that there is someone to care for her after he is gone would be of some comfort. At least IMHO.





Good luck.
Reply:Go to him and tell him how you feel about her, I am sure that he will be happy that when he dies she will not be alone and she has someone that loves and cares for her.
Reply:be sincere and go and speak to him, tell him how u feel and what ur intentions are , that will make him happy and might die in peace

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